When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24
hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar...and the
coffee.
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in
front of him. When the class began, wordlessly he picked up a very
large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf
balls. He then asked the students if the jar were full. They agreed
that it was.
So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into
the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open
areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the
jar were full.. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the
jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once
more if the jar were full. The students responded with an unanimous
"Yes."
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table
and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling in
the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
important things-your family, your children, your health, your
friends, your favorite passions-things that if everything else were
lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The
pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house,
your car. The sand is everything else-the small stuff."
"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no
room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If
you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never
have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to
the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your
children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
dinner. Play another 18 holes. There will always be time to clean
the house and fix the disposal."
"Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
represented. The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It goes to
show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there always
room for a couple cups of coffee with a friend."
Wishing all your dreams come true and may the good Lord's angels wrap
their wings around you and keep you safe throughout your day.
